Are We Breaking Up?
If you tell me one more time how unhappy you are, I am going scream! How many times have you said this to a friend about their relationship? Do they know how you feel? Breaking off a relationship is easier said then done, the struggle to let go and find someone new is still scary for many people looking to leave. So tell me what has you feed up to the point that the realtionship is over? I heard you when you said that you seem to be the giver and your partner the taker, but you knew that a long time ago, so what! It seems like you are looking for any reason to split, so wait one minute, if you are not sure, why you are looking to break off your relationship?
Yeah, I said it, sure you are not liking one minute of what I have to say, but you are the one that keeps going back and forth on this issue. Did I also mention that you are the one confused about your feelings. One minute you love them and adore them and the next you can't stand them and feel, they can literally go to hell, as you put it. Don't make breaking up harder than what it really is, if you are not happy for whatever the reason is, move on. You waste your time and the time of the other person if you aren't sure what it is you want.
Face it, some people love starting over. They love the bright new relationship with the bow on the top of it. They love getting to know the person and find themselves interested in the unknown, maybe that's you, just saying. Whatever your reason's are for ending your relationship, you owe it to yourself to know why you want out. At the end of the day you will have to live with your descion alone. If you can't find reasons to stay in your relationship, leave!
Stop wasting everyones time, including your own. Staying in a relationship because you don't want to be alone, is foolish and reckless on your part. There is no perfect time to break up and you should know that. Once more if you are planning on cutting it off, hitting the road, adios and Au Revoir know that going back is not an option especially if you are the one that's ending everything. If you are torn, get a grip and see what it is you want to leave behind, you may be surprised to know that it's not the person, but their lack of time they give you or your lack of interest. If this is the case you know what it is you both need to work on in order to get the relationship back in shape. In any case you need to know what it is you are doing and why, or else you will pick this relationship up later on down the road. What's worse than being in a relationship that is not working, is finding yourself looping and cycling back to the same person. The last thing you want to do is walk around second guessing your decision.
In any case the ball is in your court so make sure you know what it is you are doing when it's your turn at bat!