How to Deal With Energy Vampires...
Energy vampires are all around us, people who steal good energy from positive people with negative thoughts, behaviors, attitudes and actions. Some even see people like this as energy vampires looking to suck the life right out of you. Nothing in their life is going good and they are always unhappy. Their focus is off balance and they seek for answers beyond their mental capabilities. They have limited knowledge of things yet they challenge you for your positive views on life. The only way to deal with people like this who comes in your life charged up only to feast off your energy is my limiting the time you spend with them. The old saying that less is more is correct.
Dealing with a loved one or family member who is not happy with the cards life has issued them can steal your energy if you are not careful. When you find yourself in this position it's best to pull away and recharged around more positive people.
Energy vampires may suffer personality-disordered and will be as the following:
Overly critical, finding fault with just about everyone and everything in life.
Chronic complainers, rarely finding anything to their liking or meeting their satisfaction.
Argumentative on all levels and about everything thing.
Have poor boundaries.
Unable to accept responsibility.
Blaming everyone, but themselves for life issues.
No matter how much you want to help someone who is always negative, you can't. They will steal your positive energy and try and control everything you say and believe.
Negative people come off many time as having positive energy, they will match your energy to be in your company, but it is not real. They are always seeking balance of their energy and complain about having negative energy around them when they are the ones who are negative. Once you get to know someone like this you will notice a change in your energy right away similar to a battery dying. You will feel less excited talking or interacting with them because they are feasting off your energy and blaming you for not being positive enough. Pay attention to how you feel after talking with them and notice if you find yourself experiencing muscle tension, loss of energy, headaches, irritability, sadness, mental confusion, or negativity, you have an energy vampire in your life.
Below is what you must do to stop the loss of your energy by a negative person or energy vampire.
Cut off all contact.
Don't get pulled in/sucker into their problems.
Stay focus on what you ought to be doing.
Cleans your energy right away.
Know your limits.
Protect yourself and keep that person away from your family.
In the end you can't help everyone or trust they are here for you. Some people are just unhappy about life and take that energy out on your positive nature. Keep a positive attitude and surround yourself with positive folks who have your best interest at heart. Stay away from energy vampires if you want to live a strong healthy life. Some folks are only meant to cross your path once, but not stay in your life.